Struggling with romantic relationships?
Hypnotherapy from Fantastic Day, Spalding can help!
Specialist hypnotherapy and coaching in Spalding, Lincolnshire and online.
Are you finding romantic relationships difficult?
Perhaps you aren't sure that you're not good enough for someone to love you after what your last partner said.
Maybe you find it difficult to "open up" in relationships after the last time.
Or perhaps you just don't trust yourself in a relationship any more.
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Dating can be tricky.
The internet has changed the way we date, and it's estimated that 14% of relationships now start online in the UK alone.
But meeting people online can be difficult. People edit their photos and polish their profiles to give the "best impression" - and frequently, with no friends in common, you can only go off what you're being told.
How can you tell if you're seeing the "real" person, or just a "front" that someone is putting up?
Meeting someone in person can often be just as difficult, where it can be easy to trust someone too quickly, but you also don't want to close yourself off and scared someone away.
How do you know what to do?
Relationships can be difficult.
How do you know when to commit to a relationship?
What if you want too much too soon?
What if you seem needy?
You don't want to be untrusting - but what if you're being taken for a fool and don't realise it?
It can be hard to move on from past relationships.
We all carry romantic "baggage" - previous experiences that dictate how we act in the present.
And our wonderful unconscious minds simply want to protect us because we don't want to be hurt again, and it would be daft not to learn from the past.
But learning from the past, and letting it dictate your future, are two different things. If your past is dictating your future, it's going to be hard to happy.
But moving forward into the future isn't always easy.
Feeling insecure and unsure in a new relationship is natural.
You're learning about someone.
And someone is learning about you.
Will they like you when they really know you?
What if they don't? Or, perhaps more frighteningly, what if they do?
Knowing your new partner isn't your ex is easy.
But treating them like they're not your ex can be difficult.
If you're catastrophizing about the future based on your past, it's going to be tricky to move forward.
How to improve your romantic relationships with coaching and hypnotherapy.
Hypnotherapy and coaching can help you process previous relationship and put negative feelings and emotions about the past behind you.
That way, you won't drag them into your new relationship.
You can see your new relationship for what it is, not how it is coloured by your past.
Want me to help you with your relationship issues?
You're welcome to book appointments one at a time.
Appointments cost £80 and last about one and a half hours.
Appointments are booked on a one-by-one basis, but a turbulent romantic past may require multiple appointments.
How you can have hypnotherapy with Vic at Fantastic Day
In Person Hypnotherapy
Working with me in my private hypnotherapy studio in Spalding means you can experience change in a safe, soothing environment, away from distractions.